What should I do when an organization rejects me?

What should I do when an organization rejects me? I will take stock of my predicament. There will usually be things that could have been different for both the organization and the person that was rejected. Left out in the cold now, it is helpful to write down the things that the other party did wrong, and to also write down all the things I can change. What things have I done in the past that were similar? What things did I do that I definitely need never to repeat? What sort of characteristics need to be different at the next organization you approach? What is absolutely unacceptable behavior on their part? If you do not face what they did AND what you did, you may find it difficult to move forward. Unfortunately, there is unacceptable organization behavior that most organizations will never correct. However, it is necessary to name the sins of the opposite party and forgive those sins. It is also necessary to name your own sins and forgive yourself. If at all possible, seek forgiveness from those you have offended. How can I better handle my situation in the future? What are the circumstances under which I will be accepted? Videos, printed material, friends, and professional counselors may be available to specifically help. The most important thing to ask is simply: "How can I change?" I am responsible for me. David K Campbell